Calling all stressed-out, overwhelmed parents:

Introducing the groundbreaking new 1-on-1 program that gives you the exact tools you need to be a better parent and have that calm, happy home you dream of

(Even if you’ve already tried it all)

“How did it get like this? I never wanted to be the parent who yells at the kids who have embarrassing meltdowns all the time!”

Amanda was a busy mum of 2 kids aged 5 and 7. Her partner Dave worked full-time, she worked part-time, and with the kids’ school, their sports and social lives, their family life always felt busy.

In between the busy came the meltdowns. Their kids would lose it all the time (well, it felt like it anyway!). Amanda and Dave talked about it and hoped that maybe it would slow down as the kids got older. But it didn’t.

School mornings were loud, chaotic and the kids were often late. Afternoons and mealtimes were stressful. Bedtimes were a battle that ended in one of them sleeping with one (or both) kids. And Amanda and Dave were exhausted which meant they both lost their tempers with the kids, and each other, a lot. 

They wondered if something was wrong with their kids and if they should seek a diagnosis. But they didn’t want to label their kids or put them on medication.

They also wondered if maybe they were doing things wrong… they both talked about not enjoying their kids’ company. Amanda felt like she had a short fuse constantly. She had lost confidence as a parent and felt like a failure.

Amanda tried to get her kids and herself in to see a psychologist, but their books were full or their wait list was a minimum of 3 months. And even if they got an appointment, she wondered if it would actually help. She wanted to see natural practitioners but didn’t know who she could trust.

Amanda also read all the parenting books she could and attended some parenting courses but felt like nothing ever really “stuck”.

The stress of family life started to impact Amanda and Dave’s relationship. She just wished there was someone who could really help her family.


If that sounds familiar, keep reading because what I’m about to share with you is changing the lives of Aussie families for good

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Hi there, I’m Jessica McIlveen, a child behaviour and family dynamic specialist with over 10 years of experience working in the fields of social work, psychology, biology, complex behaviours, child development, trauma, yoga therapy and neuroscience.

And if you were reading that and thinking it sounds like you and your family, you’re not alone. Because no matter what kind of family unit yours is – single parent, shared parenting, foster parenting, step parenting, nuclear family – so many parents tell me they’re exhausted and stressed-out these days.

It’s no wonder really, when we’re all busier than ever and bombarded with so many theories about how to parent.

If you’re like a lot of parents, you’ve already tried a bunch of different approaches to parenting… but nothing seems to work. It’s frustrating, because you’re probably wondering if there’s something you’re missing.

It’s time to give yourself a break. Because the thing is, most traditional approaches to parenting are trying to tap into a part of the brain that kids can’t even access.

Just stop and read that last part again because it’s the #1 reason you feel like nothing ever changes.

And it’s from hearing stories from so many parents that I discovered a brand new approach: parenting the nervous system.

Why does this work? Because the REAL cause of the behaviour you’re seeing with your kids is what’s going on in their nervous system.

I created the Happy Home Accelerator Program for parents like you who are ready for change. It’s my signature 1-on-1 program that gives you everything you need to succeed.

To your calm, happy home (fast!)

- Jess

What other parents say about working with me

“We used to spend up to 36 hours in hell, but now that’s more like minutes…


I had previously undertaken a group program with Jess and while I found it really interesting to hear others experiences and it was comforting to realise I wasn’t alone, my child’s needs are so unique and specific that I wanted to explore them with Jess on my own.


I have learnt to see the challenges as learning experiences, opportunities to train my nervous system and learn to just accept the meltdowns will happen. I have learnt to see them as fear and a need not being met rather than a deliberate choice or an attempt to hurt me. I am slowly trying to learn to not take it as personal and the outbursts still happen but they are much reduced. We used to spend up to 36 hours in hell, but now that’s more like minutes.


Jess is one of the only practitioners that has made me understand my impact and role without blame or shame. I have opened up to her more than I ever would have imagined and because I made the decision to be 100% all in, I am now reaping the benefits.



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“I can’t recommend it enough. It’s worth every cent…


Jess is amazing. She is knowledgeable, professional and relatable. She is open, honest and straight to the point, explaining her lessons in a clear, concise manner. She is completely non-judgemental and has a beautiful calming way of helping you learn and realise what you need to implement in your life to find your balance.


It teaches you about who you are as a person and as a parent. It teaches you about your children and how you can help them in their moments of stress and struggle. It’s a medication-free option in a world where diagnoses and tablets seem to be given out too often.


It teaches you the why’s around your/your child’s behaviour and what you can do to feel happier and healthier. I can’t recommend it enough. It’s worth every cent.”



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“My daughter's behaviour is changing as I become more confident in my leadership role that seems to be forming as a result of everything else.


My marriage is thriving, there is friendship there that I truly value and his responses to my evolving have been so encouraging. 



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Just imagine: your very own trusted panel of parenting experts at your fingertips, giving you their support and top tools to become a better parent

Picture this:

Sounds great, right? That’s what you get with my Happy Home Accelerator Program. It’s brand new, and it’s the only program of its kind in the world.

Every home, family and child is different. That’s why with the Happy Home Accelerator you’ll start with a personalised Happy Home plan with 1-on-1 access to my groundbreaking Happy Home Network.

What’s the Happy Home Network?

Instead of wondering, “which practitioner can help my family?”, you’ll get private access to my hand-picked panel of trusted parenting specialists, each of whom have over 5 years of experience working with children and families. You’ll also have fortnightly 1-on-1 coaching, guidance and support calls with me.

What’s waiting for you and your family inside the Happy Home Accelerator Program

It’s a one-stop parenting ‘candy shop’ where it’s all about you and your family. With 12 weeks of this 1-on-1 focused attention on your family, magic happens… because a calm, happy home really feels like magic.

All the ingredients for your calm happy home are here, as you learn to confidently deal with the ‘big 4’ – anger, anxiety, defiance and meltdowns:

1-on-1 Happy Home Coaching Calls with me

Find out how to deal with your real-life family challenges as you learn to parent the nervous system

1-on-1 calls with a panel of parenting specialists

You and your family get 1-on-1 calls with my trusted, experienced Happy Home Network

A personalised Happy Home plan for your family

Know up-front the exact support and action steps you your family need to do toradically transform your home

Help when you need it with outside hours support

Dealing with a tough situation or need a question answered urgently? You’ll get voice access to me outside hours

BONUS: Group workshops on hot parenting topics

Join other parents to find out the keys to dealing with the questions and problems every parent struggles with

BONUS: Kids yoga therapy program

Teach your kids an instant calm skill for life with an engaging yoga program that I designed for kids

The Happy Home Accelerator Program gives you and your family everything you need to succeed.

And the Happy Home Network and I can’t wait to work with you, because creating calm, happy homes is what we do.

Ready to skyrocket your confidence and create a calm, happy home?

What other parents say about working with me

Want a sneak peek of the topics we can cover?

(it depends on what your family needs, because this is all about you guys!)

Here’s a sample:

We’ll give you a parenting toolkit to manage the “big 4” – anger, anxiety, defiance and meltdowns – by laser focusing on you and your family’s biggest needs.

Didn’t see something you’re looking for here? Don’t worry, this program is a private, 1-on-1 program so the team and I will be there to help you with your top parenting and family issues.

Here’s what you and your family get when you join Happy Home Accelerator

The Happy Home Accelerator Program is like you and your family’s very own confidential safe space… a place to deeply connect so you can feel more confident and create a calm, happy home.

Here’s what’s included:

Places in this exclusive 1-on-1 Program are limited. Join now:

3 x monthly instalments of


One easy payment of

$ 6,600

resgistered ndis provider

I’m an NDIS approved provider who also works with many non-NDIS families too

I’m so confident that this program changes lives, I guarantee it

In the unlikely event you feel that this program isn’t creating change, I offer a 14-day money-back guarantee*.

Still reading? This is for you

If you’re reading this, it’s because you’re sick of the frustration, overwhelm and stressed-out vibe in your home. It’s exhausting, right?

So please, stop for a moment and think about how your family’s life will look a year from now if nothing changes…

Nothing changes if nothing changes, right?

Hand on heart, this program changes lives. So if you’re ready to put in the work to create a family life you love, we’re here and ready to help you and your family.


Who is this program for?

Parents who are committed to creating a calm and happy home and ready for lasting change.

What’s included?

Click here to find out.

What happens after I apply?

Your application will be reviewed by my team and we’ll be in touch within 2 business days. If there are places available and your application is accepted, the next step is a chat with me.

Why is this program different from all the other ones out there?

Because most traditional parenting programs try to work with parts of the brain that children don’t have access to (that’s why so many parents are frustrated and exhausted). In the Happy Home Accelerator Program, you and your family will receive 1-on-1 coaching, guidance and support as you learn to parent the nervous system.

How much does it cost?

Click here to find out.

Where is it held?

All calls and workshops are held online via Zoom.

When is it held?

As this is a 1-on-1 program, we’ll work with your schedule to make sure you get the most from this program.

Tell me more about you, Jessica.

Click here to read a bit about my background. I can’t wait to work with you to create that calm, happy home you dream of.

What’s the Happy Home Network?

It’s my hand-picked, trusted group of parenting specialists, each with at least 5 years of experience working with children and families. Click here to meet them.

Which practitioners are available to help me and my family from the Happy Home Network?

Your Happy Home Accelerator Program starts with a 1-on-1 consultation to develop your family’s very own Happy Home Plan. This plan will list the practitioners you’ll be working with, so you know you’re getting access to the parenting specialists you and your family need.

Is there a money-back guarantee?

Yes there is a 14-day money-back guarantee, because I’m so confident this program gets results. *As you know, to achieve lasting change in your family, you need to put in some work. So in the unlikely event you’d like to request your money back, you need to demonstrate that you’ve put in the work required to make real change.

Still reading? This is for you

I get it, this is a long page, right? I’m sorry, I’m just so darn passionate about this program!
If you’re a “get to the point” kinda person, click here