Attention: stressed-out parents

Tired of the meltdowns and yelling? Sick of trying everything but nothing works?

Discover a groundbreaking new way to feel confident with your parenting, deeply connect with your kids, and create a calm, happy home

Wish you knew how to help your kids when they (and you) are having a meltdown?

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3 tools to get your child to listen when they’re upset, frustrated or angry

Ever wondered how your family life turned out like this?

If you’re like a lot of parents we work with, you’re stressed and exhausted… And you never wanted to be one of those parents who yells at their kids.

Does this sound familiar?

You just wish there was a way to change things for good… to deeply connect with your kids and enjoy your time with them… to create the calm, happy home you dream of.

It’s not your fault, because there’s something they’re not telling you…

Hi, I’m Jessica McIlveen, a child behaviour and family dynamic specialist with over 10 years of experience working in the fields of social work, psychology, biology, complex behaviours, child development, trauma, yoga therapy and neuroscience.

As you probably know, most of the traditional approaches to parenting use a combination of rewards, punishments and calm logic when our kids are upset.

But here’s the thing: these strategies try to work with parts of the brain children don’t have access to. Because when you try to use your logical adult brain to calm a child whose limbic system is activated, everything just gets worse. 

So what can you do? Instead of the surface behaviour you’re seeing, you need to parent the nervous system. Because your child’s nervous system is the real reason for what’s happening.

Just stop and read that again, because it’s important. And it’s an absolute game changer.

With this brand new approach, parents like you are:

I’ve created a range of online parenting courses so you can learn to parent the nervous system for a calmer, happier home.

Each of these courses gives you the tools to confidently support your child through the ‘big 4’: anger, anxiety, defiance and meltdowns.

There’s nothing more magical to me than hearing from a parent I’ve worked with that they’ve had the most beautiful connection moments with their child. I can’t wait to work with you and show you what’s possible for you and your family.

To your happy home

p.s. Just met me or want to know more about me? You can read my full story here

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Learn a brand new way to feel more confident, connected and calm parent the nervous system with my online parenting courses

(and let’s address the real reason for what’s happening with your kids)

Stop for a moment and picture this:

Sounds great, right? The good news is, that’s exactly what parents are saying is happening after they finish one of my online parenting courses:

Calm Kids Kickstart

Support your kids through big emotions by learning the exact method that reduces meltdowns by up to 80% in just 4 weeks

Happy Home Program

Get the steps to create a happy home and feel confident by learning to parent the nervous system in this 8-week program

Happy Home Accelerator Program

Radically transform your family life and home environment in 12 weeks with 1-on-1 coaching and your very own family plan for success

resgistered ndis provider

I’m an NDIS approved provider who also works with many non-NDIS families too

Want a taste of what you’ll learn when you work with me? Start with my free training:
3 tools to get your child to listen when they’re upset, frustrated or angry.

Or maybe you’re not sure which program is for you? The best way to find out is to:

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Wondering whether working with me is for you?

You’re busy and you want to change things in your home, so let’s not waste time. Get your questions answered and find out whether my programs are a good fit for you and your family with a chat – and it’s free!